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BRAVE
I have been told that I dream too greatly
That my mind dwells in a fantasy rivaling even the most prestigious novelists
In pre-school I used to conger up these intricate fables
Sit down my classmates in their pigtails and velcro shoes
And tell them of my Thursdays spent in castles,
My Saturdays breeding dragons
And my Monday’s back in time for recess and otter pops
“You’ve got your hands full with that one” they used to say
As if my lack there of limitations was crippling
I have no concept of failure
I never have.
A 4 year old Meghan would have told you the same thing I tell you today,
“I am going to be an actress”
Not an ounce of uncertitany to my voice
No Possibly, or if, or a lukewarm maybe
The word ‘if’ is toxic
I never let it slip through my tounge because I set my own limitations
And if I tell my self ‘if’ then I’m succumbing to the possibility that I don’t have what it takes
That I am doubting my very self
But We’re taught on knees of kindergarden teachers that the sky wasn’t the limit for Jack and the Bean stock
So why should it be mine?
They tell us if our dreams don’t scare us, then they’re not big enough
But sometimes at 16 the only thing you dream of is getting through the day
Getting asked to prom & passing AP bio
Because bravery isn’t saved just for knights in shinning armor or solos in school plays
It’s raising your hand in English class because you actually enjoyed Catcher in the Rye
It’s trying out for cheerleading despite never having done a cartwheel
and It’s eating lunch alone because you’re worth more than toxic friendships
These acts of bravery do not have to move mountains or part ancient seas
They do not set off on a running start at the sound of a gun
They can start small
Step by step, moment by moment
I believe in Ordinary acts of bravery
Everyday
Overflowing my 1,440 minutes in simple acts of fearlessness
So no matter how big or how small
I dare you to be fearless
To be brave
So fall in love and get your heart broken
Learn French and fail miserably
Laugh, sing, cry, scream, dance, run, write, climb, lead, build, give, dream
And start all over again
Do ‘it’
Whatever your ‘it’ might be
When I was 16 my ‘it’ was YouTube
And at midnight 3 June’s ago
I went from being another teenage girl with an idea and a dream
To a 20 year old living a reality that rivals made for TV movies
And if you were to tell my teenage midnight self
That that particular instance of sheer bravery would change the rest of my life
Well, I would have done it a whole lot sooner.
- Meghan Rienks, HÄR.